"人生有几多个十年?我要的是现在.人生有几多个机会?最紧要是活得痛快"

"水里水里去,火里火里去,两肋插刀,打落门牙和血吞"

说这部剧好,不是因为它里面在其他剧集里出现了无数次的大街小巷茶楼赌场城门.比起张纪中的广角镜头,tvb的古装剧就像茶馆里面开大戏,看的不是排场,听的就是热闹. 说它好,也不是因为里面呆若木鸡的tvb小生和花旦.说它好,更不是因为华丽丽地溏心风暴家好月圆式的家族争产和吵闹不休.

因为戏好,主角亦是好戏之人.

一位是高高在上的江南第一米庄的掌门人,一个是地底泥无父无母流浪街头的贱命一条.

一个是官家和王爷都敬若三分的蒋家四奶奶,一个是混迹匪帮,流氓无赖无所不用其极的庆丰年三掌柜.

就是一个天,一个地,一个神,一个鬼,也可以走在一起,生死扶持.

邓萃雯+黎耀祥? 绝对不是帅哥美女组合.但飙起戏来绝对的风起云涌,电光火石.

这几年看片,tvb早已风光不再.不过还是有人的名字可以成为好剧的关键字--黎耀祥.一个大大大绿叶,新家法里被打断了手的混混,西游记里的色眯眯猪八戒,家好月圆里的莲子蓉,盛世仁杰里的武承嗣,心里心理有个迷里的变态变性杀人狂......你一定认识他的脸,却不一定叫得出他的名字.一朝终于守得云开,才华被世人所承认,一时间开得盛大,开得炫烂,开得让人心疼.这条路他走了多少年?10年?20年?

四奶奶的经历,像极了了雯女,年轻的时候就已经名声大噪,本有大好的未来.可忽然一夜之间,因为后生敢爱敢恨而被冷藏,从此事业一蹶不振.直到芳华不再的时候,却凭如钥一角,回到舞台的中央.

如果希望四奶奶和柴九会像言情片的猪脚们你一句"你爱我吗?"我一句"你不该问的我爱不爱你",那么可以不要去追了.因为从头到尾,他们都没有一丝一豪的暧昧.就像柴九挂在嘴上的,人生有多少个十年. 能够痛痛快快地为知己上刀山下油锅两肋插刀,没有爱情又怎样? 四奶奶也是,心里记挂的是她要为她去世的老公守住的大家族,要为无锡百姓平安人人都能吃到平价米的太平盛世.于是,她没有多余的小爱可以分给柴九.

岂曰无衣,与子同袍. 虽然用的不一定恰当,但是巾帼枭雄表现的就是这种超越了爱情亲情的革命友谊.

金枝玉孽勾心斗角地让人郁闷,火舞黄沙沉重地过了头,巾帼枭雄--知己敬知己.

虽然非常推荐,但是也要对tvb一贯的冗长,吵闹,白痴的风格有所忍耐力.

废话够了,贴几句歌词,欣赏一下主题歌,美啊~

世间什麼爱叫纯洁 你甘愿化振翅红蝴蝶
饱经挫折 伤口淌血都不至会磨灭

He's just not that into you......

Such a love film like a practical manual of 'how to tell if this man is really into you'. but the fact is still I don't know. Can't tell.

有时候一种姿态,一句话,可以有很多种interpretations,却永远不会有答案.

如果这个世界上有除了爸爸妈妈的人会说舍不得我,应该感动上天没有薄待我,究竟,还是有人在乎我的.

不知道为什么变得很自私,很aggressive.明明和朋友讲得好好的,会因为对方的一句话扯到我哪根不知所谓敏感的神经,于是一顿明嘲暗讽回将过去,对方便再没了话语.好后悔为什么要这样对几年不见的朋友呢,好不容易马上就能见着了,我为什么要说气话呢.可不可以不要生我的气啊?

我大概就是不抵得帮的那种人,怕我无聊的好心,会被我当成驴肝肺给堵回去.然后就缩进我的蜗牛壳,不出来,做做白日梦,好过交出信任换来伤害.

工作性质不需要我说很多话,简单的工作关系让大家的相处也可以很真诚,也许因为大家都太好了,宽容我的任性,我的马虎,才有了现在的我.被当头打一棒子,或许做人会清醒许多.

云淡风轻的英格兰南岸小镇,沙滩,大海,白云,有街头卖唱的乐队,大街小巷都是的fish&chips.

石头是被磨成圆圆的,没有了棱角.这是海的力量.悠闲地在这里度过一个懒洋洋的午后,也不惘我们做2个小时巴士来这里.

5镑钱一次的沙滩蹦床,非常爽地摆脱地心引力的同时也发现自己真的好重,后翻更是需要腹肌,弹几下已经让我累到不行.都是些外国的小孩在玩,偶尔还有一位啤酒肚腩的大叔蹦两下博女朋友一笑.心道,小时候没有体会过的游戏,二十好几再来补过也不算迟.花钱买罪受,买的就是心跳.想当年和番茄在海洋公园玩跳楼机的时候,一次跳过,爽到,看看没什么人排队,于是又跳了一回......年轻就是好啊.

Brighton最著名的东西要数那座"东方"风情的George 四世的chinoinism的宫殿了.怎么看都是怪异,外表非常穆斯林,里面就很exotic.大概这就是英国国王眼中的中国.满屋子的龙和蛇,五爪的,四爪的,带翅膀的,会喷火的......反正是龙就成了.还有些个'艾吗呢口南'的牌匾,样式倒是学会了,可惜上面没有一个中国字是对的.就像好多外国人的纹身什么"宫包鸡丁","番茄炒蛋",错别字大把......

闻名遐迩,标榜世界遗产的Stonehenge. 其实,远看很小,尽看还是很小.

典型Japanese造型--总是被偶的法国同事嘲笑

巨石阵边上真的很荒凉,估计当地旅游局为了发展经济所以不知道从哪里搬来这些石头,随便摆摆......

我和我的同僚们一致觉得,他们当地汽车公司的现金流很好,可以拿来securitise一下.一张车票贼贵,受益稳定.....

巨石阵所在小镇的大教堂,庄严肃穆的教堂啊,我们居然想在里面picnic,罪过罪过....

总想敲一块儿下来,揣回家然后挂厕所墙上.谁让老外也喜欢用中国画装饰厕所......哼

Trust

The question is whether it is easy or not to give out one's trust. There's a rule which is commonly believed: no trust, no hurt. But it's hard to prouve it straight forward because hardly nobody never trusts. But it's easy to find evidence from the negative statement, which is " easy trust, easy hurt". I see Susan in Desperate Housewifes such a person so easy to give out her trust to the 'one' that makes every miserable ending in love affairs. But she never regrets or changes her attitude when facing men's proposals. So she's kind of best exemple of naive and easy trusting.
However, Mike, Susan's ex husband, is behaving in the opposite way to show how difficult it can be to give out one's trust. No matter how much he loves his current gf after the divorce with Susan, he will only continue to love as long as his partner doesn't talk about future or marriage. Trust is kinda fragile here. Once broken, hard to piece together.
In normal life, most behaviours are easy to interprete or justify. But when something better than expect happened, is it easy to trust the goodness in people and rule out the misinterpretation of the pure good intention from others? Oh, the world is so practical, no lunch is free.

Trusted
It's not easy to trust, even harder to be trusted. One has to work hard to accumulate his reputation, but once a small mistake is made, the beautiful picture collapses and fades away. There is some one in the world can trust him without condition, parents. But if there's some one else except the parents could trust him more than 100 percent, he should definitely be grateful to God. One may wish to live without making mistakes, or without making reputation-impairing mistakes.

Passionate
Whatever becomes the only passion in life, it becomes a danger. Like between a couple, if one is the only passion of the other, he/she would be in great pressure. DH ep 21, Lynette, after tiring work, fell into sleep when Tom was on the edge. His greatest fun becomes her greatest annoyance. Everyone should at least be passionate to several things in his life. It just like diversify the portfolio to reduce the individual risk. Otherwise, life would be miserable if anything or anybody dominates it.

Getting rid of one illusion is just the start of another illusion. Can't trust what I see or what I feel.

http://laviya.blog126.fc2.com/blog-entry-61.html

词:随江流
曲：遥远的旅途
唱：零鸦杀

（念白）
如若有后世，你我何生？
矫而不躁，柔而洒脱，心绪平静，无怨无悔。
当年目视云霄，谁信到，一人终老。
此生再无大志，惟愿相伴而已。
白头之时，魂牵梦绕......
展昭。

汴河畔夜风凉 换浅斟低唱
依约丹青屏障 恍惚中谁着了蓝裳

（念白）
他说，白玉堂，欠你的，这辈子都还了。
下辈子，就别再见了。
后来，白玉堂看着展昭身上的伤，他觉得欣慰，因为他知道了，展昭是想活下去的。
可突然，白玉堂落泪— —那时的展昭，竟是独自面对着死亡的吞噬。

满目逝水苍茫凌乱秋声怅 月流烟渚扫尽浮云畔
谁伴我醉中舞画影临西窗 那人不胜酒力微踉跄
长袖染尘执伞走过玄衣巷 再无人含笑轻唤玉堂
十年前白玉猫儿碎在手掌 叹英雄绝代国士无双

叹英雄绝代国士无双