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    June 27

    尊严是什么

    当为生活奔波忙碌的时候,一般是不会去思考这样在生存需要层次之上的问题的.

    在有的人面前,可以永远高傲地像蒙娜丽莎,在有些人面前,却永远卑微到土里去.原来尊严是相对的.

    一个人可不可以像袋泡茶一样,泡一次就扔掉,取决于有多少茶包.泡过的茶包再泡会没有味道,但是倒上白开水,还是会有那么一点味道. 所以取决于喝茶的人之前喝的是浓茶还是白水.

    如果人生用来纠结自己究竟是不是袋泡茶,根本不重要.重要的是如果已经迈出了第一步,就不要计较地走完剩下的99步.

    相爱的人会争吵,不爱的人反而可以和平相处.是敌是友,有时未必是看和平不和平的.

    拿得起哀伤,放得下快乐,人生方得正果.

    不知道为什么做人会做得这么纠结,肆意放声地大笑,想掩饰的,是怎样的心情.可以拥有,但是不能执着,因为分离是必然的.于是还没有得到,就已经怕失去. 曹雪芹说:离合皆有定,聚散岂无缘.是怎样的命运,领着我走过这岁月这些地方,哪里才是我该回去的地方?

    June 12

    How to grow up as quickly as possible?

    To grow up is painful. When I'm [2x] years old, I can't say "I'm just a kid" as excuses. No one's gonna take that. Especially in work.
    To do a job well is not just to be accurate and no mistakes. It's not about what I can do, it's more about how quickly I will be able to do what I was not.
    To work until 12 is not frustrating, to work until 12 and got nothing worked out is truely frustrating.
    I never drink coffee because that gives me stomachache. But I have to drink it for the whole week to get myself conscious. Fortunately and unfortunately the coffee works very well in both ways. It gives me real pain in stomache and keeps me awake. I see the only reason I work this hard for is that I want to help in some how. 天真地以为 If they treat me like one of the team, I should take some responsibility so that not everyone should stay until midnight. Even a little help would make me feel worth it.
    But it turns out to be I'm not experienced enough to make any positive contribution. My effort turns out to be my little boss' 'headache' 因为帮我解释清楚的时间也许他已经做了3倍的事情了.
    今天晚上9点我离开了办公室,一般情况这被视为"早退".我们组就是这么变态,一定要和清洁工比谁回家晚.
    男高音是对的,我的好意对我的同僚们其实是一种折磨. So I give it up, so I escape.
    老板是矛盾的,他总是说,对于实习生的期望是不一样的,但是如果我没有创造丰富的成果,他又会表现出失望.因为真正的熬夜奋战的时候,他又不把我当实习生了.
    对于这样的老板我该怎么办?不浇水就期待着发芽.不灌溉就期待着丰收.我要多坚强才可以在没有期许的环境中成长? 可不可以不要说不期待我的话?
    也许在n多年之后回头看我的职业观会觉得这些全是无谓的.可我还是想说,对不起,让大家失望了.
    June 06

    看图说话--Isle of Wight

    Isle of Wight 是英国最南面的一个岛.风和日丽的时候超级适合度假及养老,有沙滩,游乐园,悬崖,和无数的帆船.

    感觉自驾游来的local比较多,大概因为上这个岛只能摆渡没有火车或汽车直达的原因.英国什么都好就是天气实在是差了点,大半年晒不到太阳我都快变贞子了.

    好想哪天去尝试一下sailing和riding,有钱有闲人的活动,呵呵,两个都没有的时候就发发梦吧.

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    非常sad的一天

    早上看新闻,罗京走了,成都公交就这样烧起来了.
    sad......